Imagine you are planning a magnificent gathering to celebrate life. You choose the location, the decorations, the food and the drinks. You send out beautiful invitations to all guests. All is ready and set to go. You are so excited!
But then, on that specific day, the weather is not cooperating at all. You decide to move the date to another day, so the celebration can be of amazing quality and fun. All is good.
So there arrives that special day again, but the weather is not cooperating at all. Actually it is even more severe this time. With a sigh, you decide to move the celebration yet again to another day. But this time, you announce to all guests, that no matter what the weather does, the celebration IS happening on this new date.
Because you decided that you, and not the weather, are in charge to make this gathering happen. And you realized that instead of basing the quality and fun of this celebration on the weather, you rather base it on you and how you see, hear, taste, smell, think and feel this celebration. And you got to the understanding, that good and bad weather IS part of that exact life, you are celebrating with this gathering.
So there arrives your special day again. The weather is so-so…. But it has no impact on the quality and fun of this celebration. Because you took charge, made it happen and choose to have a blast. And that was exactly what this gathering to celebrate life was , a blast for you and everyone!
Your new day IS that gathering to celebrate life!
And you can experience it in two ways…
You can either base the quality and fun in your new day on the weather, other people and all happenings. Which means you keep moving your celebration of life further out, day by day. “I will be happy tomorrow, when everything is perfect…”
You can decide that you are in charge to make your new day happen. You can realize, that instead of basing the quality and fun of your new day on other people and happenings, you rather base it on you and how you see, hear, taste, smell, think and feel this celebration of life. And you can utilize the understanding, that good and bad are part of that life you are celebrating with this new day.
I count on you to choose the latter!
Because you deserve to have a blast at your gathering to celebrate your amazing life and being!