365 Days of Happiness – August 8, 2017

Be clear!

Create a YES or NO day! That is a day where no maybe, no probably, no perhaps and certainly no “I don’t know” has any space to even exist.

That cuts out a huge load of second guessing, overthinking, “what if” problem creating, and being stuck. Imagine all the extra energy you have available to be your crazy you today!

Every decision, choice and question that comes for you today, answer from deep within you, with either a YES or NO. And if you can’t clearly say YES, it’s naturally a NO. No need to think it through with every cell you have. It’s all very simple and clear.

So here we go…

  • Does it feel good for you, yes or no?
  • Does this food energize you, yes or no?
  • Do you want some chocolate, yes or no?
  • Do you need rest, yes or no?
  • Is this kindness, yes or no?
  • Are you happy, yes or no?
  • Do you want to do laundry, yes or no?
  • Do you like what is going on, yes or no?

Take all that clarity you gain from your YES or NO day, and make the appropriate changes. Some happenings you can change right there on the spot. Some you can start to change now, knowing it is a process. And some you can’t change. But with the clarity you gained, you can change how you perceive it, which lets you say YES to it.


365 Days of Happiness – August 7, 2017

Support your decisions!

No matter what you decided or decide, once it’s a done deal, support it!

And if you feel that your decision is not fitting anymore, simply change it to a new and better decision. Refrain from looking back, judging, questioning or second guessing your old decision. And then support your new decision.

Here is an example. You decide not to work out today. Support that decision. If you start second guessing it, say or think “I support what I decided earlier!” Then re-evaluate your situation and change it to a better decision. Without judging, or in this case, feeling guilty. And then support your new decision 100%.

That is called “resistance free” deciding!

365 Days of Happiness – August 5, 2017

Relax, swim and float!

When you are in a swimming pool, you don’t move against the water like it is your biggest enemy ever. That would exhaust you and be of no fun. Instead you relax, and find your harmonious rhythm to swim and float with the water. You both  become one. You all know how wonderful that feels!

The water in the pool represents your life. Swimming and floating against your life will exhaust you and be of no fun. So relax, and find your harmonious rhythm to swim and float with your life. Becoming one with your life will feel the same “wonderful” as swimming and floating with water.

Now, if you find yourself moving against your life, acknowledge it and take a pause. Close your eyes, and imagine sliding or submerging in a pool of water. Feel the water and start relaxing. Now start to swim and float. Find your harmonious rhythm to move with the water and become one with water. Feel how wonderful this IS!

Visualizing and feeling this will shift you into a relaxed and harmonious frequency. And that is when it is a great time to get back to your life and keep moving forward, together as one!

Tomorrow is Sun-Day! Become one with it!

365 Days of Happiness – August 4, 2017

Stand proud and make it happen!

Waiting for everyone to understand what you want and give you what you want, the way you want it, while treating you as you want to be treated is a real gamble. It may or may not work. But for sure it is giving your power away. And no matter the outcome, your experience is very muted, because it was not you that made it all happen.

Stand up for what you want! Create and take what you want. Make room for what you want. Make yourself visible, heard, outspoken, felt and thought of. Be the most powerful advocate for what you want.

Go make it happen!

365 Days of Happiness – August 3, 2017

What do you see?

Imagine you are on a beautiful island with a white sandy beach, happy palm trees, turquoise water, a clear blue sky and the sun is shining. You are taking a wonderful nap in a hammock, under palm trees in the shade. You are now waking up and opening your eyes. Wow! All you can see, hear, smell, taste, think and feel is this absolute beauty of white sand, blue water, happy palm trees, blue sky and a powerful sun. You are in awe! This beauty is filling your mind, body and spirit. You smile! All is well.

…And only after a while you also notice the chipped paint on the bungalow you are staying at, the algae on the beach, the smell of trash, the hole in the hammock… But all this does not matter a bit and is tiny, compared to this gigantic beauty you saw and focused on first, when you opened your eyes.

See how things move to the backseat depending on what you first choose to see and focus on?

Train yourself to see, hear, smell, taste, think and feel the gigantic beauty of everything first. I promise you, it is always there! Doing so will shifts you to such a powerful frequency of amazing-ness, that everything else will become tiny and unimportant.

In short… Just see the beach, water, palm trees, sky and sun in everything first!

365 Days of Happiness – August 2, 2017

Think highly and discover!

Pick something or someone you think very highly of. For instance a family member, coworker, friend, historical figure or famous person. Or something like the sky, moon or sun, water, animals, the universe.

Here comes the big question! Why do you think so highly of the chosen? What qualities do you admire in the chosen? Pause for a minute and make a mental list.

Now take your list and and go through every single admiration. For example… “I admire the pure peace and calm of the chosen.” Feel this! And then say or think “I have the same quality, I admire the pure peace and calm in me.” Take as much time as feels good to go through your admiration list. Really feel this beautiful shift that is taking place in you.

Admiration is your helpful tool to put the spotlight on what you are not seeing or feeling in you. Because every single quality that you admire in something or someone, you already have and you already ARE.

So next time you find yourself thinking highly of someone, know that this is your awakening to a quality that is already in you, ready to be discovered.

Happy self-admiration discovery!

365 Days of Happiness – August 1, 2017

Don’t get too comfortable! Then again, get comfortable!

Life is an ever changing, shifting and vibrantly alive experience. And so is your body, mind and spirit. You ARE an ever changing, shifting and vibrantly alive being. That is the natural state of everything.

So key is to get comfortable in this vivid state. But why is that so hard?

Fear is the usual culprit. And to feel safe, we find comfort in everything as being settled and to stay as IS. But that goes against our natural state. So at first, we feel it as comfortable, but it always ends up not feeling good, because it creates resistance towards our natural state of always changing.


Trust! Trust is a harmonizer of fear. “I trust that…” Fill in the blanks and feel how fear shifts to neutral.


Believe! “I believe that…” Fill in the blanks and feel how you shift to a peacefulness and harmony inside you. Believing seals the deal to feel comfortable in whatever IS for you right now.

Enjoy being comfortable in your crazy alive state.